Well surprise, surprise I was actually looking forward to Valentine’s Day this year! I had a date on Valentine’s Day! I woke up feeling loved and included and at total peace with the world. Normally on the 14th February I try and hibernate through the day, either not leaving the house or not leaving my office! Certainly I would not go to a cafe and pick up my take-away cappuccino and see... 

As some of you might know, after a few months experimenting with the rsvp website I was feeling completely dejected and a fellow inner westie who was following my blog rants invited me out for a drink on Friday night. Neither of us knew anything about each other, only that we were both single, we didn’t even know real names, ages or even have each others contact numbers. Scootergirl meets JimBob... 

As you all know I didn’t get anything out of rsvp, and on the weekend I hit a miserable low point in my life. Why am I so fussy, surely out of the all the eligible bachelors on rsvp, between the himbos, fitness fanatics, travel to a new destination every week bachelors I could have met someone that was vaguely suitable. My friends want me to continue with rsvp and I want to give it the flick.... 

Ok so I have been trying to be open minded and positive about online dating but I have to vent now. I am over it. I have been been madly emailing, “chatting”, texting and dating for a few months now and what have I got to show for it? Nothing, zip, zero! This is just hard work. I have not met anyone even remotely close to being someone I would like to even hang out with. And what is it... 

I know I have been quiet, I had hoped to stay under the radar and no one would notice that scootergirl had not made any progress in her quest to find a man, boyfriend or just male friend. It seems that my complaints of being too busy at work have fallen on deaf ears and I now have no more excuses to join rsvp. I was hoping some sweet, kind guy would sweep me off my feet in the last few weeks and I... 

I was given one clear objective, well maybe not objective, maybe you would say it was a threat. If I didn’t mingle with new people on Sat night at the Queen Victoria Hotel at Enmore, my friends said they were putting me on rsvp. I felt that this was a too big a leap so I negotiated this threat down – I had to chat to 1 new person at some stage during the night. The night consisted of 14... 

This is scooter girl signing in for her duties… I have been given the unenviable task of writing about my search as an Inner Westie to find a date, love interest, fling or at the very least a male friend. Ok so basically I am desperate and dateless in the Inner West. I am interested in men only, I am late 30′s, I don’t think I have any real hang ups although I am quite independent. My...